It seems we've gotten mixed up; confusing correction and coaching for insults and accusations. One is from love and sacrifice, the other from hate and bitterness.
Would you have told Jesus he needed to be less aggressive because his message challenged your comfort zone?
"Then said Jesus, Let her alone: against the day of my burying hath she kept this. For the poor always ye have with you; but me ye have not always."
Something to consider,
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